Human nature is very unpredictable, sometimes we do not realize what we do. Love, happiness, anger, laughter, and so on, the human being is full of emotions and there is an inbuilt quality within us that is the power of ignorance.
We tend to ignore or not notice many things knowingly or unknowingly. Sometimes this leads to major problems or loss, this can be personal or social. Just imagine that your spouse is suffering from some problems and you know that the person is in trouble but you do not take that in your priority and you ignore it and at the end of the day you get to know that person has some serious illness, how your mind and soul going to react? you will feel hopeless and helpless and there arises anger within and you start questioning yourself. In this developing society, you come across thousands of incidents that need to be taken into account but today's generation is so into themselves that they have lost the track of noticing what's cooking around.
Develop a sense of responsibility
All of us need to remember that anything and everything happening here, we all are part of this chain. So ignoring any incident will directly show that we are irresponsible. There is this habit within us that needs to be eradicated, which is "MAINE ISSE BATAYA THA YAHA KUCH GALAT HAI YA ISS BAAT KI RESPONSIBILITY ISSE DIYA BUT ISNE NAHI KIYA TOH MAIN KYA KARU" and this "MAIN KYA KARU OR I AM NOT AT FAULT" is very dangerous, it is dangerous for the whole society.
Nobody is a superhero but at least start from your own place and become the hero of your own house. This will definitely create a chain reaction. To help somebody or to notice something that's not correct and make it right all you need is confidence and a sense of responsibility. Don't rely on anyone, do it because you have to make it right.
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How things are when you ignore the society
Just imagine you found a lost child in a fair and just because your mind starts calculating the mess you are going to land into while helping the child and you decide not to help that child and run away and after few days somehow you met him somewhere begging, how your heart and mind will react? you will definitely die inside with guilt of not helping the child, the fact doesn't change that there were thousands of people at the fair who could have helped the child but they all transferred their responsibility to others and so you did the same, the situation would have been something else if you did not choose to be the same as others.
Change is not a one-day process, it is a lifetime fight. If 'SAVITRIBAI PHULE' would have not fought for women's rights and education just imagine what would have been women's position in society. She alone fought for it and achieved what she stood for, she never thought no it's not my responsibility someone else will do it, just think real hard when people back then with no help, were so strong and fought for others so we definitely can, with all the available help.
Self-motivation
We need to be motivated on a daily basis. In this era, with our daily dose of food, we need a plate full of motivation. Self-help is most important, self-motivation is a must, talk to yourself think about what is wrong and right, built confidence, nobody is born with all these qualities. It is up to us how we need to balance our life. Nothing is one day process, learn from others make mistakes but have the guts to accept and make it right the next time. Give yourself enough time, to realize the power you have within. If only you are motivated you can help others, there will be obstacles, your society will create problems with everything, do not get afraid,, change your actions, go ahead,, and do what you are determined to do.
It's okay if you do not become the center of attraction for doing something great, you will be satisfied within, stand-alone is needed, what if nobody pats your back fights for your right, and motivates others too.
"KANDHO KO BADLO, SAHARE BADAL JAYENGE
NAZAR KO BADLO ,NAZARE BADAL JAYENGE
KASHTIYAN BBADALNE KO KAUN KEHTA HAI
DISHA KO BADALO , KINARE BADAL JAYENGE"
Not noticing around and moving on with life is easy but what comes easy does not gives you any excitement in life and for that to happen you need to look around, focus, and observe whats needs to be taken into account. Look around in your house, talk to people and see if they need any support. Help your mother, father, wife they will never tell you if they are in a problem but it is your responsibility to notice hard enough and find out if they are really fine. In this way help yourself and help others.
- Alka Singh
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